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Why might you want a Relationship Coach?
What is Coaching? 
What can you expect from Coaching?
Who is your Coach?
Free initial consultation
 

Why might you want a Relationship Coach?

• You want to clarify what you want in your relationship, including what is reasonable to expect (this is very, very important!).
• You want to be more consistently successful at having what you want in your relationship.
• You want a relationship that is joyful, struggle-free and effortless. 
• You want a cleaner alignment between your values and how you live your relationship.
• You want to clarify whether to stay in the relationship, or whether to increase the level of commitment.

• Your Coach is a personal trainer for your relationship.
• Coaching is collaborative, with a foundation of trust, honesty, respect, and openness.
• Coaching is effective, focused, and tailored to your specific needs.
• Coaching has a positive, healthy orientation.
• Coaching is not psychotherapy. Coaching is particularly for those who are willing to take a healthier and deeper level of responsibility for their lives.
• Coaching is a safe place to explore new possibilities, to move beyond self-imposed limits.
• Coaching can be conducted either face-to-face or on the telephone. 
• Coaching is confidential within the limits of the law.

• Clear Impact Coaching is about clarity and movement, and about "simple truths, consistently applied." ©
• You (separately or with your partner) will clarify your individual and mutual goals. 
• You and your partner will get to know each other better. You will like, appreciate and respect each other more. 
• You will learn to step back and view your relationship as a separate entity, with its own history and momentum. You will understand its current dynamics, identify options, and be able to facilitate positive shifts.
• Clear Impact Coaching is action oriented, focused on movement in the direction of your chosen goals. Each session will end with an action plan, a mutual determination of next steps.
• You most likely will quickly see surprisingly positive results. 

People ask me to describe my core competencies as a coach, and what sets me apart from other coaches. I admit to having trouble finding just the right words. On the surface I bring a strong understanding of coaching technology, a well-developed set of skills, and wisdom culled from years of personal and professional experience. On a deeper level I bring the results of an earnest exploration into my own filters, limiting beliefs and internal structures, including an ability to assist others in seeing what gets in their way of having what they want, both personally and professionally. 

At an even deeper level I assist the development of an inner relaxation that allows for increased effectiveness and fulfillment. I’ve learned to work successfully with people on both the doing level and the being level, and this is a powerful combination. Agitation is non-productive. It can appear superficially productive, but at a deeper level it gets in the way of productivity, harmony, and satisfaction. Coming from a place of equanimity allows us to be passionately engaged in our work, our lives, and our relationships without bringing unhealthy baggage along for the ride. We are less agitated, blaming, complaining, power struggling, and taking things personally. With an abundance of freed-up energy, we have a natural desire to express our inner talents. We are able to access deeper levels of wisdom, creativity, and clarity, and are better able to listen and truly connect with others. This leads to more personal effectiveness and more successful relationships. 

I work at different levels, depending on the needs and wishes of my clients. I’m quite comfortable and competent assisting clients in setting goals, exploring creative ways to get at these goals, removing obstacles, and setting clear action plans with accountability that accelerate their ability to be successful. What stays consistent in all my coaching and consulting work is that I work with who you are and I assist people in working from their strengths.

To find out more about me, click here.

Free initial consultation
Choosing your Coach is an important decision. After one session you will understand much more about the coaching process and what you can expect. For this reason, I offer a free consultation. References are available upon request.

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